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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

13/f, a boy a year older than me reallly likes me ALOT. i like him too but we go to different schools like 45 min away.now he wants to hookup with me and stuff, but he said if i don't want to its fine, but i want to. i know he has hookuped tons of times and said he had a lot of girlfiends but 'doesn't like commitments'. i saw his myspace/facebook and he has a million friends that are girls and they all comment saying 'i love youu!' or 'the movies were so much fun' and like i think hes a player or a manwhore.
but i really like him, so what should i do? just let him go? is he worth it?

It really is your decision, based on your emotions and everything... but I'd say, "I'm sorry, but no." It probably won't affect him much, because he has a lot of other options.
Think:
If he goes to another school, he'll probably be going out with somebody there, while he's hitting on you there.
If he's a year older than you, more reasons to say NO. He's probably interested in girls his age, so he's probably playing around with you.
I'm not sure of how your relationship would work out... but I'm sure of one thing: he will not be worth it. If you go out with him, and if he breaks up with you or cheats on you, don't break your heart over him. You're better than him, because you're not a slut that goes around with tons of girlfriends. You're a girl that cares about people, who'll probably get much better guys than that player. Remember that.

Hope I've helped
-Jenny

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