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Q: okay so i've liked this guy named derek for a long time.and so do alot of other girls. i was his first friend an we are still friends as well i mean i have been his bud since 1st grade and all the other girls liked him since 5th grade when he got taller and junk but anyway its weird to have to like him because he is a major flirt to every girl and if you like him everyone that doesnt have a crush on him or anything will think your weird even my best friend sorta knows that i like him but im shy to tell her because well you know
so should i keep quiet and never ever tell derek i like him so know one will judge me or should i just go for it
if i do go for it how???
-kimberly
Well like I always say, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, what matters is what you think. If your friends or other people judge you, just because you like someone, they are not true friends. If you like this guy, you should tell him, otherwise you will never know if he likes you or if it would work out. If you really want to tell him, find some time to be alone with him when no one else is there to hear you, and just tell him you need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same. If he doesn't, do not stop being friends with him, and let him know that you do intend to stay friends if he doesn't have those feelings for you. But if he does, go for it. And always remember, no matter what happens, you can ALWAYS stay friends with him. It may seem weird if it doesn't work out with him, but eventually things will go back to normal. And don't forget, it doesn't matter what other people think about you, it only matters what you think about yourself.

thanks i will call him right now

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I have always wanted to have my own advice column because many of my friends and family have come to me for advice, (especially my younger sisters and thier friends), and I always have something to tell them. I thought it would be nice to give advice to other people that need it as well. One good quality about me when it comes to my advice is that I have expierience both in the teen world and the adult world. I am also a soon to be mother and have some good advice for mothers and soon to be mothers. I have been through a lot for my age and I am more than willing to help ANYONE who needs it, and I hope I can do so.

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