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Q: I used to hang out with this boy Chris over the summer. It was really fun and I started to like him. Then after summer, we kind of stopped talking. A few weeks ago, he IMed me and we started talking again and making plans to hang out. Our conversations are so good..theres never an awkward silence. He's really outgoing in real life, too. Like I always see him with girls..but when he sees me all he says is, "Hey!" and even though he says it really nice, he doesnt try to make conversation like we have online..what should ido?

Ever hear the saying "Men, can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em."? This is why they made the expression. Guys don't think the same way girls do. They like attention from girls when it is just them and the girl, but if there is other people around, they act like they don't even know you. It's just the way they are. The only thing you can do is talk to him. The next time he is online, IM him and ask him about it. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same. That way you will at least have something to go of off and if it works out then it works out...If not, there is always other men in the world. Good luck

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I have always wanted to have my own advice column because many of my friends and family have come to me for advice, (especially my younger sisters and thier friends), and I always have something to tell them. I thought it would be nice to give advice to other people that need it as well. One good quality about me when it comes to my advice is that I have expierience both in the teen world and the adult world. I am also a soon to be mother and have some good advice for mothers and soon to be mothers. I have been through a lot for my age and I am more than willing to help ANYONE who needs it, and I hope I can do so.