.I'm nothing amazing.
.Don't want to be.
.My birth certificate reads Christina.
.A very select few can call me Chrissy.
.I struggle between extroversion and introversion.
.Laughing at un-funny things is my specialty.
.I eat the green m&m's beofre all the others.
.Don't know why.
.I worry too much.
.I think too much.
.But never enough.
.I'm the one you can call at 3am and say nothing.
.I'm the one who will call you at 3am and talk all night.
.My friends are Uh-mazing.
.You can't convince me otherwise.
.The television and I don't meet.
.But movies are amazing.
.I read.
.And enjoy it.
.Drums are amazing.
.I say amazing too much.
.I am a realist.
.And a day dreamer.
.I am a photographer.
.Good or bad, that's for you to decide.
.Words most defintly are not my strong point.
.Awkward silences seem to be attracted to me.
.I don't dress for you.
.I am pretty independant.
.But I love people.
.My favorite animal is the panda bear.
.Yeah. I'm a nerd.
.Downtown=love.
.You'll come to find I repeat myself.
.Often.
.I wear my seatbelt.
.I'm a confusing girl.
.And I'll be the first to admit that.
.I flip pennies over so they are heads up.
.It's a habbit.
.I don't change for anyone but myself.
.Calling people in the morning just to say hello.
.It's my thing.
.I don't believe in love.
.But I think i found a boi who's changing my mind.
.Autumn is my favorite.
.Wanna go puddle jumping?.
.I am forgetful.
.Sorry in advance.
.I read to escape reality.
.I write my own zine.
.Ask me about it.
.Mountain dew is my energy source.
.Singing=not my thing.
.I'm irresponisible.
.My middle name is Rochelle.
.And I like it.
.It's French.
.Maybe why I like french fries.
.I'm not Cinderella.
.Although my life story lines deal me otherwise.
.Fairy tales are not real.
.I'm a realist.
.Don't like myself.
.I will eventually.
.I laugh.
.I smile.
.I'm Christina.
.I am a mess.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Daycare Teacher
Age: 17
Member Since: December 16, 2006
Answers: 13
Last Update: December 22, 2006
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13/f -okay, heres the problem! I love my mom (of course) but me and her get into SOOO many fights, and I know its common for teens to get into fights with their moms, but she always starts it!! I will just say something, and she will think that i'm yelling at her and be like "rar!" and then i'll be like UGH and then we will just ignore each other for the rest of the day (sounds childish right? EXACTLY!!) Also, my mom is such a hipocryte (dunno how to spell that)!!! She will do the same things I do, and then i get mad at her!! CAN YOU PLEEEEASE TRY TO HELP ME BECAUSE I DONT WANNA FIGHT AS OFTEN WITH HER BECAUSE THIS GOES ON LIKE EVERYDAY!!! (link)
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Pretty much every teenage girl, myself including, understands what you are going through. My mom is pretty much the same way still, and I am 17. However, through the years I have realized that though I don't intend to, I do have a tone in my voice that sends the wrong signal. And I did it for so long, even when I don't have that tone, my mom still just expects the worst and yells at me anyways. Maybe you had that once? I am not sure, but if that is the case, continue with the way you are handling things now and eventually she will see. But other than that, you may hate this next few sentances, try talking to her about it. Maybe not right away, but find a time that you both are "calm" and just bring it up. Dont try and blame it soley on her, and try not to get deffensive if she blames it on you. Hold your temper and talk it out. Even if the conversation doesn't end as you want it to, she will more than likely see that you are trying to handle it in a mature manner, and maybe she will ease up a bit. Just don't give up, okay? I hope that helped.
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Thank you!! I'm realizing now that it was my tone probably.
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