Member Since: December 10, 2006
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Do you think people should take comments made to them at face value and not read into what was said to them. If
you said yes why yes and if you said no why no. I will give you an example of what I mean: If Alice says to Sally; I
noticed that Diane looks terrible in blue; should Sally just take it to mean that Alice thinks Diane looks terrible in
blue or do you think Sally should read into that remark and take it personally.
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It is very important to protect your best and truest friends from dangers of all kinds. Insults, rumors, threats, or harmful self-abusive decisions. However, it is also a good idea to just sometimes leave the situation alone, and let work itself out. There are many times when this should be done, but it all depends on who said what, how it was worded, and why it was said. If someone says that they think your friend looks bad in something, simply kindly disagree with them, and ask the person why they think that about your friend. But it is also very important to try and make sure the conversation is nothing more than a friendly conversation, reguarding one's looks. Try to make sure the conversation does not turn into an argument over something stupid.
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