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Location: Philadelphia
Occupation: Preschool Teacher
Age: 27
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Hi. I have been recently talking to this guy that i met of some dating website. hes really nice we have soo much in common and after a week or two we met up. hes good looking and has a charming personality. he tells me after meeting that he has fallen for me and that he loves me. I think that is way too quick really. but my thing is if someone loves youu like they say they do they would call you more often, but the thing is, he hardly calls me. and he insists that I come down to see him. he won't come down to my area. he lives in scarborough and me in brampton. so the first time we met, was half way sort of. I didnt mind it and i made it a point to him that next time we meet up he should come down to my area and he agreed, then he said 2 days ago. he wants to meet at the same place we met before.. I got upset and said you promised etc to come to my area and he kept telling me that its too far etc.. I said that to him...(via txt msg) neways to cut things short,it has been two days since iv heard from him.. and I sent him a txt msg today saying i havent heard from you in 2 days hope all is well, pls call me today and let me know when you wanna meet up and if you don't pls let me know that to.. i gave him two options. but my question to you is wat do you make out of that situation.. wats your thoughts and advice to me. id really appreciate it if you would get back to me. by the way i'm 26 and hes gonna be 27 in january.
thanks
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Love can happen in just a couple of weeks, days even, take it from someone who met and fell in love with her husband within about 2 weeks, and 10 years later we are still married. However, if he really loved you as he is letting off, he would be calling you much more and putting an effort into seeing you. I also believe that a man should be more willing to make a trip rather than the woman, I don't mean to sound old fashion, it just seems more right to me, especially since he's already agreed to come up your way. Instead of texting him, try calling him and let him know your concerns. Tell him that you don't feel that he is very committed to this beginning relationship and that before you put any more effort into it, you need to know where he stands. Also, I wouldn't meet this guy in an unknown location, seeing that you did just meet. There are a lot of crazy people out there and woman in particular need to be careful. Good luck and take care.
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HI, quick question. I have tried contacting him today in the morning but I got no response and yesterday I sent him a vmail saying I called to say hi. give me a call later today when you are free. and I didnt hear from him. so today in the morning I called around 7:04 to be exact and I sent him a txt msg about meeting up etc.. I dont want to bombard him with phone calls either.. Tell me what shall I do? shud I forget about him or shud I try other ways to persue him. Im soo confused and depressed.. I really like him alot..
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