My name is Ashley Laskarin and i am sixteen years old. I have been through many different experiences in my life as many have, but i believe i have a gift for advice most of my friends and family come to me when they have an issue. im a good listener and love to help people. My life is the very essence of drama. I dont like it but ive grown up with it and know how to deal with pressure. ill answer anything with the best of my ability. so ansk me anything! :)
E-mail: nicolelaskarin@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Indianna Occupation: school Age: 15 Member Since: November 20, 2006 Answers: 110 Last Update: December 9, 2009 Visitors: 8826
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i am a really nice person and i don't understand why so many people are mean to me...i mean i am really quiet and i don't bother nobody!
there is this person who is constantly putting me down and really hurting my feelings...i try not to let anybody know how bad he's hurting me....but it's really getting to me. you would think he would say it to my face instead of other people. i mean the stuff he is saying hurts me soo much....i'd rather be beaten physically than to have something killing me from the inside this much....
i really don't know what to do i just know i feel really bad about what's going on....espeacially when me and that particular person don't even know each other.....not to mention when he starts putting me down so does everyone else....
i know most people are going to say talk to him....but that's not an option...because if i talk to him i am probably going to get violent...because i am sick of this.
this is really really tearing me apart and i know you shouldn't let words bother you but after a while they began to really get to you and tear at you...what do i do? (link)
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well you see i had the same problem...i'm really quiet to. That is the main reason they pick on you is because they don't think you will say something back nad to make them selves feel better about themselves speak up for yourself. you don't have to confront him but whenevr he says something just speak up and don't let him out you down. Violence isn't the best answer but if he get violen t with you i suggest you start swingin. That is what i had planned on doin but all i had to do was speak up for myself and then he stopped picking on me.
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