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Here's my situation..I went out with my ex for almost year (we even went to college together freshman year) but things didnt go as well as I planned and I broke up with him bc I wanted to "experience" college. I dated another guy, which was a disaster, and he dated another girl. The whole time I was in a relationship with another guy, my ex would constantly call me and write me letters about how much he stilled loved me and how I was the best thing that ever happened to him, but I just kinda ignored them bc I was "head over heels" for the new guy..Well the new guy and I broke up bc he cheated on me and a few months later my ex and I started talking and hanging out again and Im starting to have strong feelings for him again, so now I am stuck. Now he doesnt act as interested as he used to be and I told him how I feel about him and how we should try again but he keeps changing the subject. The thing is, he still claims hes in love with me and tells me that everyday and we hang out all the time so I dont know what his deal is..I feel like if I keep bugging him about it, he's gonna think im really annoying. And it seems like I am always the initiator...is he just giving me a taste of my own medicine (the fact that I acted that way when he tried getting back together) or is it somethng else? Has anyone been through the same situation?? (link)
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well, since you did go out for over a year, i think he would know you by now.. and so all you have do is tell him that you want to just hang out with you and him one day and then sit him down and tell him that you want to get this straightened out, and this will be the last time you talk about it. Then, you tell him how you feel about him and you just want to know if he still feels the same way that he did, and if he does then ask if you guys can try to make things work again, and if not, then you can know that he doesnt feel the same way and you can move on. this is the besst way i know how to deal with your situation. i hope it works.
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Rating: 5
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thanks, thats exactly what i was thinking :)
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