Member Since: December 6, 2006
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Last Update: December 7, 2006
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Here's my situation..I went out with my ex for almost year (we even went to college together freshman year) but things didnt go as well as I planned and I broke up with him bc I wanted to "experience" college. I dated another guy, which was a disaster, and he dated another girl. The whole time I was in a relationship with another guy, my ex would constantly call me and write me letters about how much he stilled loved me and how I was the best thing that ever happened to him, but I just kinda ignored them bc I was "head over heels" for the new guy..Well the new guy and I broke up bc he cheated on me and a few months later my ex and I started talking and hanging out again and Im starting to have strong feelings for him again, so now I am stuck. Now he doesnt act as interested as he used to be and I told him how I feel about him and how we should try again but he keeps changing the subject. The thing is, he still claims hes in love with me and tells me that everyday and we hang out all the time so I dont know what his deal is..I feel like if I keep bugging him about it, he's gonna think im really annoying. And it seems like I am always the initiator...is he just giving me a taste of my own medicine (the fact that I acted that way when he tried getting back together) or is it somethng else? Has anyone been through the same situation?? (link)
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You should stay away from him for a while. Keep your distance. It seems that you never really separated before. Yes, you were broken up, but in both of your hearts and minds you were still together. You need to stop talking to him. He needs to find some other way to occupy his mind than with you. Let this happen for a good month or two and then see what happens. You two never really let each other go and now its a comfort and/or a convenience factor that is keeping you two from separating. This doesn't mean dating someone else. Just find out who you are without him, especially since you just entered college.
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thnx ive never looked at it that way
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