Hey! My name is Julia and I'm 19 yeards old. I've been through a lot throughout my lifetime so I can offer advice on many things. Feel free to ask anything you'de like and I would love to help out!!
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I'm 13/f
One of my guy/friends asked me out today, and my friend put me under a lot of presure of what tosay, so I said I'd think about it. He smiled and went on about his buisness. Then like, 10 seconds after the last bell rang one of my friends told him I'd said yes, but I hadn't.
Then at 4:59(sry 'bout that, I do that all the time) one of my other guy/friends who had him over called and asked me what I was gonna say because he wanted to know. As I said earlier, I hate being under so much as the tiniest bit of pressure, and I said "I guess." Know, I wish I could go back in time or kill myself. I don't like him, I like another guy, I don't totally trust him, and my mom said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. So now, I am disobaying my mother(whom I love very much and hate disobaying) gong against my scences, betraying myself( since I like someone else), killing myself from so much pressure, guilt, and worry, afraid I'll hurt him, might loos a friend, and wishing I could kill myself. HOW HORRIBLE!!!! HOw would I break up with him without hurting him or lossing his friendship??? (link)
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This is a toughy because the guy obviously likes you enough to have the courage to ask you out. The best thing for you to do is just talk to him. Tell him that you dont really want a bf right now bc you have a lot of other things going on and you were under pressure when the question was asked. DONT tell him that you like someone else bc that would just hurt his feelings. Tell him that you really appreciate him asking you out but its just not the right time for you right now, and let him know that you would still love to be friends with him. If you're nice and sincere about it, he should understand! :) Let me know if you need anything else!
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