Member Since: December 4, 2006
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Last Update: December 6, 2006
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One of my best friends, who I've known since we were toddlers, is starting to really get on my nerves. She tries to be like the popular people ALL the time. She doesn't buy clothes from the "it" stores, but she tries to act like her clothes are the best... like, she rolls up her sweatpants like everyone else does (which I hate, but that doesn't really matter) and tries to make her hair have that bump on the bottom when she wears a ponytail. But... it comes off looking reaaaaally bad on her. Then, when she's talking to people, you can tell that she thinks that she's better than them, even when she's obviously not. And she always ditches me for her other friends just so she can be "popular"... like, my other best friend waits for me at the end of all of the classes we have together, but this friend just walks out the door talking to a different person every class. It really ticks me off. Although, when we're alone, she acts like she always used to. I think its great that my friend wants to try and be... cooler... but she's really hurting her other friends feelings, since I know she ditches my other best friend (we're a trio) all the time. And the thing is... her new friends are almost all geeky and nerdy. What should I do??? I don't want to seem like I'm telling her what to do. (link)
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Funny thing, i'm going through the exact same thing and i've been through it before. One friend of mine actually ditched me for 'cooler' people. The current one, she's doing the same as what your friend is doing. All I'm doing, is leaving it right now. See how it goes. If she doesn't say anything say/do anything by... Christmas time, or after Christmas then maybe you should say something to her. Ask her why she's leaving you out, does she think that she's to good for you. etc etc. I don't know if this will help, but it's what i'm doing. I'm doing this because it gives my friend space, the last time someone ditched me i was practcally begging her not too and not only did it not work, i barely had any dignity by the end of it. Hope this helps.
- Emma XO
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my friends been doing it for a looong time ( at least 2 yrs) but more so lately.. so yeah, i'll take your advice.. thankss alot =)
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