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ok 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or kiss or anything. i don't know whats wrong with me. all my friends have had boyfriends but no, not me. im not ugly or anything like not to be conceited or anything but alot of people had told me i was cute and pretty. and i also have like alot of friends and they all say they love mt personality. i just don't get it. any answers to why i never had a boyfriend or how to get them to know im interested? (link)
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"Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing. That is why we just have to be a little patient and the right boy, the one who takes a chance to find the good, right apple will come someday."
This quote is totally true. There is TOTALLY nothing wrong with you...the truth is, dating at your age doesn't even matter that much. I mean, yes it matters, but in the long run, who you meet when you're 14 is not who you're gonna marry anyway, so just don't stress about it! you've got tons of years ahead of you, just focus on school and your friends, and pretty soon you'll meet a guy who's crazy about you. I promise, as long as you're patient, it'll happen, and when it does it'll be better than any little thing that could ever happen when you were a preteen.
As for your friends, just tell them you have other priorities, and if they don't think you're worried and desperate, they'll actually respect you a lot more than you'd think.
I hope that made sense and helped! good luck, just don't worry too much.
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