about

Yes it may not seem like it but i am a girl. I do not think of myself as pretty but some ppl may say differnt. I guess u can ask me about nething but hw cuz i ahve trouble with my own. I might be able to help u with ure luv life but thats b/c i like to help ppl :). I have never had a b/f but if u have ne questions about ures or r a cute boi in middle river, talk to me plz. jk. but i seriously woulden't mind. well ask me for edvise if u have ne questions. bye for now!!!

advice

15/f
I have had a bad past with relationships. All these people have lied, used, and hurt me.. so I'm unsure if I want to start a new relationship. It's been about a year or longer since I was in a relationship.

But I really like this girl. But my parents are homophobes.. "I will hurt you, if you're gay" something like that when I was younger .. recently, it's okay with them.. They just don't want to see it. (kissing, etc)

I'm just afraid of what they will think.. growing up always hearing these gay jokes and insults about lesbians.

And I also don't want to rush into a relationship just because I like someone. When do you think you should go out with someone?
I've known this girl for 2 years.. We weren't really close.. until this year.. We have gotten closer and hung out like 3 times in a week and a half. It's just weird.

its ok to be the way you are. the only thing is that you dont no(or you do and didn't say) if she is one to. like youngrandma said, its ok to experiment if other things (like going out with boy's) isn't working for you. dont tell your parents even though they are excepting this. I know that deep down they would be hurting if they found out there own daughter was a lezbien. i watch alot of lifetime shows that help state wat a parent feels like wen they find this stuff out. well anyway, hope you can do wat your feelings say to!!!

[view]

(Rating: 5) my parents wouldn't be hurting if I were a lesbian.
They only get grossed out.
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker