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okay ive been dating this girl for about 6 months. her name is jessica. she's really cool and i love her alot but for the past 2 weeks shes been acting really weird latley. she seems to get really jelous of other girls. like i'll be talking to my friend lily and she'll pull me keep me away from her and if i try to go she pulls me and stright up tells me not to talk to her. but then i talked to her and she said she was sorry but yesterday she strangled lily and almost threw her down the stairs. i dont know what to do. i love jessica with all my heart but her jelousy is giving me other thoughts. i love her so much but maybe it's not worth it. is this normal is relationships? how can i convice her not to be so jelous? should i just dump her? what should i do???

okey it's normal to be KINDA jealous. but kedd, in this case, she's like.. dangerously jealous. That is what you call controlling. She tells you who you can talk to and who you can't. And of course that's never healthy in a relationship. I always get jealous when my boyfriend is hangin with other girls instead of me but dude, i don't try to push them or throw them down the stairs! The right thing to do in a situation is straight up tell her "I love you with my whole heart but your getting really controlling. If you don't stop we have to break up." And if she doesn't get why she's being controlling, say the same exact thing you say here because that makes sense to me.

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