Hey.
I am Mimi.
I am a 14 year old but I have been through a lot for somebody my age.
I am a very honest and passionate person and I understand things that people are going through.
I love to give people advice.
I am a big dreamer and a performer.
I really love anybody and it's almost impossible for me to hate.
I am a really loud and fun person but quiet and a deep thinker at the same time.
My heart is really big.
I am committed and do as much as I cn to help.
I love a long story.
Love stories are the best.
I am a hopeless romantic.
Gender: Female
Location: Bradenton, Fl
Age: 14
AIM: xrebelxxkittenx
Member Since: October 16, 2006
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A big HUGE thing I hate like crazy is when people go digging for compliments. I find it kind of pathetic, but in my home I am constantly torn apart and picked at for every little thing. Always told I'm not pretty or not smart and that I'm a terrible person and noones ever going to want to marry me. (Theres alot more I just dont wanna say it all.) Well because of this I have been losing more and more confidence and I've been tending to go digging for compliments. I mean I always get compliments from everyone, about how I look and how I dress, but at times when I'm not I get insicure. I know that might sound pathetic but i start feeling really bad and down about everything about me and feel the need to have other say good things about me. Is there anything I can do to lift my confidence and stop me from being the type of person I hate? or is it just a self problem that i have to overcome?
Thanks to taking the time to read this,
sorry im being so immature and stupidd. (link)
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Oh no babe, don't worry.
It's funny how contradictory we can all be...
I mean I love the spotlight...but I'm not self-centered.
You look for compliments not because you don't like yourself but because you want to be sure that other people do too. A lot of people are like that.
The family thing is pretty harsh...I'm sure that you are beautiful and a great person. And when you marry Mr. Right they will be crying.
Talk to a counselor too.
It makes all the difference.
XOXO
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