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Hey I'm Tricia.
I've been through: alcoholic parents, divorce, depression, anxiety, moving, making new friends, relationship problems...etc. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm always here for you. =]

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I've been dating this guy for a month, we've gone on 3 dates, he's 2 years older than me. We're both gay and he's in the closet... I don't know whether or not I should ask him to be my boyfriend or wait for him to ask me... What should I do? His birthday is coming up and I was thinking we could have a candle lit dinner and then I'd ask him if he would like to be my boyfriend in a like proposal sort of way ^_^. He's going to be 19 and i'm 17. We both share roles so that it's not strictly dominant/non dominant. So... yeah any advice?? He's never been in a relationship before and i've been in two... Anymore questions just ask me!

I say ask him out. If he hasn't asked you out then do it. But make sure he's comfortable with it though. You don't want to ALWAYS have to be the dominant.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. ^_^ Happy thanksgiving!
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