Well, i am a very caring, kind and considerate individual. I've been through a bit in my life but what hasn't killed me has only made me stronger-it makes me an appropriate person to talk to.
E-mail: emmy_k_81@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Victoria, Australia
Occupation: Early Learning Childhood Development Assistant
Age: 25
Member Since: November 19, 2006
Answers: 4
Last Update: November 20, 2006
Visitors: 941
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My best friend just "boke-up" with me...(were both girls btw)...and well i sure didnt see this comming and im so confused...because for a while now ive been soo depressed and confused about other stuff..and well im fukll od mixed emotions and well im just looking for some support from others out there who have been through this and what to do so im not as depressed about this... (link)
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Been there done that!!! I know how you feel. Does crying at night, and feeling like you have lost an arm or leg sound familliar to you? I hear ya! Firstly you must establish what happened-whether it be writing it down in a letter to her, talking to her rationally, or to her mum, assuming she still lives at home. Mum's can be of invaluable assistance at this time (believe it or not, she was once a teenager and a young woman). Perhaps, give your friend some time to cool off. Then ask to meet up for a coffee or something to discuss everything. or have a party with some friends and invite her so the strain is a little less severe. Getting depressed (which is a very touchy word) and miserable about it wont make things better and will not resolve anything-instead go out with your other friends-surely you have more than one. There are two critical things to remember in this situation.....
1. Things like this will take time to clear up and its important to remember not to push it-you will only end up by pushing her further away.
2. True friends will always come back to you, and if they don't, ask yourself this....is it really honestly woth the chase? True friendship is like a golden ring.....no beginnings AND NO ENDS.
I hope i helped.
if i need some more support email me.
Keep smiling......it air-conditions your teeth.
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thanks a bunch...i took your advice on the letter and it helped a bit so now its not as awkward...really...thanks alot...she means alot to me...:):)
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