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So i've gone on two dates with this guy. He likes me, I like him we both know and we scheduled two dates this past week both of which had to be canceled because he's in college and apparently had some tests/projects that he has to get done. The only thing that pisses me off right now, is that wednesday the day of the date, he doesn't call me to tell me that we're not having the date, I get online and he's online and he IM's me telling me he's sorry and that he doesn't have time to go on a date today, and on friday which was our other thing and that he was really sorry and blah blah blah. I'm kind of angry, but i'll live with it so i'm just like talking and we're having a nice conversation. Thursday comes around and he tells me that we can hang out on Friday because he'll finish what he needs to do on thursday so he can hang out with me on friday... my hopes are all up and i'm excited... night time comes around and he IMs me telling me that he wasn't able to get everything done and that we can't hang out tomorrow cause he'll be busy... UGHHH pisses me off... I don't know whether or not I should keep him because it's like he always seems to be bringing my hopes up and then killing them instantly...

College is stressful. It's kinda sorry of him to IM you instead of calling you. But, technology sucks these days. Don't get your hopes up and don't drop everything because he wants to do something. Remember to keep your social life going because it will seem to him like you're just waiting on him, therefore he'll keep doing this. When you get a chance, cancel on him one time. Not everytime, just once. Have something really important come up or something. Give him a dose of his medicine. And bet of all, don't call him - IM him. Us girls have to be able to play the game also to stay in the game. Better yet, you take the reins. If he continues canceling, it would seem like he's making excuses and I would confront him. Best of luck and remember don't wait on a guy!

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