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Last Update: November 19, 2006
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Ok Take Me Serious..I May Sound Selfish But I Dont Care..
Im relaly considering giving up life, ive nearly died so many times. Someone wants me dead..
My ex tried to kill me..
Everyone walks over me..Hurts me once comes back for more and hruts me again
I cant handle life any longer Its killing slowly id rather get it over and done with :'( (link)
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First, about life. To the best I have been able to determine, there is no Plan. We arent here "for a purpose". We dont have a destiny.
To me, thats the most kickass part about being alive. You can do everything or nothing at all. Its up to each individual to find meaning in his or her surroundings, to find their own joys, their own pains, and their own path in life.
Second, people walk all over you because you let them. Im not saying thats the only reason things happen, but you need to realize something. There is ONE common thread in all your experiences. You. The fact is that there are assholes out there. We cant change that, the only thing you truly have power over is yourself. Its up to you to make changes in your own life, good or bad. If you let the world make them for you, the changes are usually not to your benefit.
Third, about not being able to take life any longer. Trust me, you can. Id like you to think back to all the shit you've had to deal with in your life. Then think about the word "had". Its in the past. You beat it. You conquered it. YOU ARE STILL HERE. That in and of itself is an accomplishment to take pride in.
Fourth, and lastly. Whats really waiting for you? If you end it, you have two possibilities. Hell and Nothingness. Ok, well the third is reincarnation, but given that actions taken during life affect who you come back as, you might come back as a goat. Do you really want to give up being human for being a goat? They eat metal and make the worlds worst tasting cheese. More seriously though, ending it doesnt make anything better. Either you go to eternal torture or you are nothing more than a sad memory to those who know you. Thats no way to go out.
Id reccomend, first, finding some goals. They dont have to be big, just something for you to shoot for. As you go along, your goals get bigger, better, and provide alot more satisfaction. Example, my goals are to finish grad school, teach, get my PHD, have kids with my fiancee, and a few others. Thats alot on my plate, but it gives me things to work for.
Lastly (I promise this really is last) at least make it to college. In high school, your social structure in classes does not at all resemble the real world. I hated high school, and I was actually one of the more popular people in school when I was younger. College was like a lifetime of breaths of fresh air. All of a sudden, life is opportunity.
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Thanks That Really Helped, I Made It Too College, But I Quit As I Didnt Like It, But What You Have Said Has Helped Alot. xx
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