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I Do not have any photos of myself available yet, so my seven year old is filling in for me. Isn't he cute?
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Hi, my name is Tammy, I am 32 years old, I live in Las Vegas, Nevada with my son and his daddy. I love helping people with their problems and I also really enjoy getting to know new people. So, look around my column. Maybe I have given advice that you could use someday!
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I'm in a bit of an awkward possition. My girlfriend and I have recently been doing some exploration with our bodies and have stopped using condoms all together. A few days ago I found out that she wants to have children and that she doesnt want to wait till we're out of high school. I've also heard rumors from my friends that she's planning something. I want to know if, well, its alright to have children at a young age.
ALL of the advice you have gotten so far has been great, from insightful columnists. So I will try not to repeat what they have said. Keep this in mind. What happens is not the point, it is how you deal with it that counts.
I know girls who have had babies and finished highschool. They jugle school and family, much like I juggle work and family. Babies are long hours and hard work, but well worth it. My regret is that I was 25 before I had my son.
There are some cultures that encourage young girls to get married and pregnant before they are 14 years old. They also have have ten wives, 25 chilren and their very own communites.
Maturity comes at different ages. I have known 16 year olds with more maturity than any 30 year old.
The question is ARE YOU READY FOR THIS?
9 Months of; "OH, I am so fat! GO get me some ice cream."
You must be careful. I do not know how moral your girlfriend is. She may have ideas to get pregnant even though you do not want it to happen.
Let me save you 15 years of learning from bad relationships. "I've also heard rumors from my friends that she's planning something."
First, you are listening to rumors instead of just asking her the truth.
Second, If she is the kind of person who would plan something, why are you with her?
Your best bet is to back off and not have sex with her until she grows out of this phase. And you know she isn't going to try and trick you by poking a hole in the condom. (I had it happen to an ex boyfriend. E-mail me sometime and I will tell you about it)
Here is an idea!
Find someone that has a newborn baby. See if they would be willing to make arrangements for your girlfriend to care for that baby for 48 hours every weekend for a year. She would have to stay friday night, all day saturday, saturday night and until 5 pm on Sundays. She would have to cater to the baby's every demand while the parents took a break from the exhausting demands of a new baby.
This would give her a taste of what it would be like as a young mother to take care of a baby.
You should try it too!
Anyway, here are some sites I think that you would benefit from.
Birth control methods go here!
http://www.knowmycycle.com/birth-control-method.aspx
Information on how to control your orgasms, so that you do not release inside her. Go here!
http://sivasakti.com/articles/tantra/orgasm-art26.html
Good Luck!
(Rating: 5) Thank you Very much for the advice. o^.^o