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I met this gurl in Sept. in a welfare office. I was shy and my sister gave me the entrance to talk to her. Well, she is pregnant and due in late November. The father has nothing to do with the pregnancy and she doesn't want him around. I first started to help her, like buy her stuff for the babyshower and give her money and help pay bills, just as friends I said. We flirt often and i develop feelings for her. i just don't know should I tell her I like her or wait till she gives birth. she gives me clues by calling me and chatting, ask me to buy dinner and even asked me to be there during delivery. Wat is going on from a female side????? (link)
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Hi, that is a touchy situation that your in. I have a son and let me tell you when I was pregnant my hormones were all over the place but they were much worse after I gave birth I dont think waiting is a good idea she is going to have alot more going on after the baby is born and may feel over whelmed. Tell her how you feel now. But also tell her that you realize she has alot on her plate and if she's not ready to change the pace of your relation ship right now you understand and that you would rather be friends than nothing at all. I would tell her that you sometimes think of her more than friends and ask her if she would ever consider the 2 of you as more.
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