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I met him outside of target while i was sitting in the car while my mom was inside. After a while of glanceing at each other he came up and knocked on my window and after talking for a little while he asked for my number.
We have been text messageing each other for a while now and he wants to meet me some where.
The thing is i don't know if h really likes me or not i mean idk he has kind of stopped texting me. Like i mean we will talk but usually i i have to text him 1st. He told me that when he get his first paycheck he wants to take me to the movies, so i am pretty sure he likes me but am not really completely sure.

Also:
He has never seen me walk and i am really nervous because i have Cerebral Palsy. I told him that i do and he said its what on the inside that counts and that he doesnt care but i mean,he hasnt seen me walk and i am really afaird that it will freak him out.
Thanks,
Tory

Well of course you are nervous. All you can do is give it a shot if he judges you or doesn't like you then he wasn't worth your time. I know that it will be hard but knowing is always better then not knowing.

He may be saying all the right things but the not knowing is harder then anything else, so bite the bullet and set up the date when he gets paid, if it works out great if not then chalk it up as a learning experience.

HOH, GOOD LUCK!

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