Hey, my name's Jessica and I'm 19 years old. I have been through all that teenager stuff, with the boyfriends,homework, stress, etc. I have watched over this site but said Hey, why not start giving out advice? (P.S, I'm the girl on the left of the photo)
Well I have three dogs and two cats. I have two older sisters and a younger brother. I go to College now, and it's going great
I have a boyfriend named Alex. He is the sweetest guy ever! We have been dating for 7 years and he is the best!
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Everyone is so incredibly jealous of me. I know I'm a nice person and that I don't show off so I don't see how this has happened. My 'best friends' have all turned against me (twice now with different groups, once this year and once last year).
I only have one real friend. People are always complaining how smart, pretty, athletic, rich, stylish etc I am. Never once have I bragged and I NEVER act like I'm better than someone. In fact, I have struggled a lot to achieve everything I have and I love myself. I know exactly who I am.
What I don't understand is why this happened to me or how to get by it. I have tried heart to hearts, ignoring it and everything in between.
I know every single person in my grade at my school (we live in a pretty isolated town) so I can't exactly meet new people. I also don't WANT to forgive the people who have done such mean things to me in my past. Everyone is just so insecure.
How do I get through this? Is there any hope? (link)
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I understand exactly how you feel. This used to happen to my friend all the time and I was the only person who would support her and actually be a friend. Sometimes friends just get to jealous and it's human nature.
If people are always complaining how pretty smart althletic etc. you are then find something good about them to talk about. I know you don't want to forgive the people who have done this to you but I mean your gonna have to deal with them for a while so you should try to forgive them or if you still don't want too, just try to make peace with them, so you can walk into school and not be like "ugh not again!"
So if someone complains how rich you are complement something their wearing, if they aced a math test etc. It will make people less jealous of you, even if it dosen't seem that way. When people are jealous of you and your complementing them about how cool that shirt is etc. it makes them not want to complain as much.
I mean think about it, if It was you that was complaining, wouldn't you want to hear someone say your stylish etc. Dosen't that make you feel good?
Sometimes it just happens to people and you can't help it. I know if you try my advice you'll get through it, and don't be afraid to take a risk.
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