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Well ive really grown to like this guy. Weve hung out a lot and theres something different about him. Im very anti-highschool kind of relationships even though I'm in hghschool . Im very mature and I hate how stupid and immature highschool guys are and how they use girls just to talk to their friends about it and just want a fling. Im into the kind of relationship where it takes at least 3 months to say I love you and where im actually the guys best friend and girlfriend at the same time. I want a guy where his future plans are the same as mine and we hvae the same friends. Well...it just happens to be that his best friend is having the same thing with my best friend as i am with him. The four of us are identical and were all best friends at the same time. Well every time we all hang out I grow to like this guy more and more and we both know we like eachother. Well the last few times we hung out...when we said goodbye we gave a hug and a kiss on the lips...not exactly a peck but not anything more than just a nice kiss on the lips. Well just last night we hung out and everythig was great then when i was leaving, we kissed but it was more of making out. Ive tried getting into a relationship with a lot of guys before but backed out before it all could start and kissing because alot of guys have screwed around with my head and heart so Ie never made out with anyone before. Im not picky, its just that i want to be serious when i find someone...but not in a prude or old ladyish way. So...he kissed me then it just sorta continued and kept going and like i felt his tongue in my mouth so i ssorta went in too and just did what i thought was right. I cant even explain it really. Now since I never did it before , I dont know if i did it right or not. It just sorta happened so fast and I just went with it as best as i could even though i could barely concentrate on what i was doing because i was like thinking all different things in my head besides what the hell i was doing. I dont know if i was doing it right and i just wanna know if there is a right or wrong was of how to make out or theres somethig you gotta think about or do when making out that i didnt do.

I just sorta did what I would do if i was kissing and just opened my mouth and kissed again and then added tongue and stuff. Im embarressed cause I know hes done it before and i hope i didnt do it wrong and did really bad.

it seems to me like you did everything just fine! there is no wrong way to makeout. you just go with the flow, like you did. :]
-missadvicebitch1

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