I know my life is no perfect than anyone eles's, but when I want advice,I expect the truth and nothing sugar coated. That's what I do.I tell you exactly how I feel or would do in that situation. In the end I would never judge anyone.
Gender: Female
Location: new york
Occupation: hairstylist
Age: 29
Member Since: November 8, 2006
Answers: 5
Last Update: November 10, 2006
Visitors: 1024
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KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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It all depends on how committed you and your boyfriend are. Think back when you first met your boyfriend. Did you feel the same attraction to him like you do with this guy? Was your boyfriend sweet and made you smile when you first met? It's always great in the begining, but after time you will have your arguments and misunderstandings. If you feel that you really don't see a future for you and your boyfriend now(i don't know how old you are) or down the road, i would say go for it and see where that attraction takes you and the other guy. But don't forget 11 months is a long time to just throw away if you honestly love your boyfriend as much as you say. You have to know the difference between true attraction or some guy that is just flirting with you.
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