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I've gone on 2 dates with this guy who's still in the closet. He's never been in a relationship and we've kissed and made out and did other sensual things, not sex. I asked him if he wanted to go out and do something with me next week and his response was, "maybe" I asked him why "maybe" and he said, "well I could be going on a date next week." I was like, "oh okay that's cool, keeping your options open."
He's like, "yeah" "are you okay with that?" I was like, "not really, but I don't want to act like i'm too attached." then I ask, "would you be okay if I went on a date with another guy between then and now?" he said, "yeah, i'm not clingy." Okay, now analyze this and asnwer this question. What's the difference between being clingy, and acting interested? In my mind, him saying that he might be on a date with another person between then and now, shows that he's not interested in me. And second, isn't it rude anyway to tell the person who you've gone out with two dates on that you might be going on a date with someone else? please help, this frustrates me. (link)
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yeah its rude but atleast hes honest...red flag...obviously hes not the right one for you and the way he sounds i dont really think hes the right one for that many others...he more then likely wont give you a good relationship...clingy is when you call aguy 10 times a day ..get jelous when he hangs out with people who are just friends whether there male or female..bosses him around or drags him every where and basically never giving him a spare moment with out you. if you werent ok with him dating aroung while dating you then tell him...your not being clingy your stating what you want and if he cant comply then hes not right for you.
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