My friends and family have all said I should try my hand at being an advice columnist. Said that I am regular Dear Abby and Dr. Ruth rolled into one. So here it goes I'm on here to help with whatever however I can.
E-mail: jewell2578@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Age: 28
AIM: moetsminer
Yahoo: midnightmoet
Member Since: November 1, 2006
Answers: 23
Last Update: December 7, 2006
Visitors: 2372
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Here's what happened, I met this guy online, we talked for a couple days, seemed to click but then again it's online. Anyway, we went on a date, watched Borat, which was really funny, and then hung out, ate, and talked for awhile. Then we scheduled to go out on a second date which we had yesterday. Instead of going out we chilled at my place kissed for the first time and talked and made out. Anyway, between Sunday and wednesday we were really enthusiatic about it and all. We can't really talk on the phone because he's still in the closet. Oh yeah, i'm a senior in high school and he's a freshman in college so the age difference isn't bad at all. Anyway, I just don't really know how to read him I don't know whether or not he likes me... Online and texting he seems to be getting annoyed of me but in person he's really caring and really passionate and sensual. I just don't know whether or not i'm reading into him not being as responsive when I text him as something small that I should overlook. I guess i'm becoming too attached because after all we've only gone on 2 dates... I guess i'm just wondering if someone can help me analyze this situation and tell me whether or not I should just chill, try going on dates with other guys, and not get too attached to this guy. I just figured that if someone were interested they would be just as "clingy" in a sense as I am... I guess it's just something I always see on T.V. *sigh* any help? If you have any more questions to help you better analyze this, feel free to ask. He's never been in a relationship and i've only been in one other which I constitute as not really being a relationship... but that's another story. (link)
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He's not out of the closet yet which will definitly be something that will take time for him to do. That may be why he isn't overly enthused about the attention. Give him some time to sort things out and don't be concerned if he isn't 'clingy'. My bf isn't either .... some ppl are just not like that. Doesn't mean they care for you any less it just means that you are two different ppl who have different ways.
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