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ok im 13/f
so ive was friends with this girl for maybe a year. last year we were really close. shes really nice but shes the kind of person that sucks up to everyone to be everyones friend. over the course of last year we got into some fights but not a big deal, towards the end of the year she did horrible things to me, she told this girl alll my secrets, and talked behind my back. so then after that i told her i can't trust her anymore and i still mean it. she forgave me and then i gave her a 2nd chance. it happened again and i told her that i couldnt be friends with her anymore. that summer she didn't really talk to me but i didnt care. this school year shes acting as though im her best friend and trying to tag along with me and my new friends. my friends don't care for her so much but they dont want to be mean.

i officially don't want her in my life..but she won't stop talking to me. she IMs me all the time, talks to me in school.. and i say hi back to be nice but i give her the could shoulder but she doesnt get the picture !!!

what do i say/do to her that will keep her away from meee ?!

it seems like youve made new friends and moved on with your life - without her. explain to her that you were serious when you said you didnt want to be friends with her. maybe she didnt take it seriosuly. politely tell her that your not enemies, but your not friends either.
-missadvicebitch1

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