Q: I have a pretty confusing situation.
I'm a girl, 15 and a sophomore. There are two guys that are involved, the first, whom I'll call L, is a really nice, funny, and cute guy. I talk to him every day, and I think that we're friends and get along pretty well. He's 17 and a senior, and I've liked him since about the 2nd week of this school year. The second guy, F, I only met less than a month ago. He is the sweetest guy I know, and we talk pretty often nowadays, which is weird, as he has said that he usually can't stand sophomores. He's also a senior, and kindof an artsy, non-conventional guy. The problems? L is dating an AMAZINGLY gorgeous and talented girl, who lives 6 hours away but he has been dating since summer. He's never talked to me about her, but this weekend I saw them together for the first time and I almost had a stroke, which is weird for me. F drinks, smokes, etc, while I am 100% straightedge. L also has a really cool girlfriend, whom he has been going out with at least since the summer, and I know reasonably well.
I don't want to be a homewrecker. Are my hopes way too high? Will I ever be anything than just a friend with either of them? Do I just wait it out and see what happens? Should I even bother with F?
If you could bring any clarity to this situation, I would appreciate it so much!
