My name is Colleen but all of my friends call me Leena. Call me what whatever you'd like. I'm reallly tiny. 4'11 :) I like to type little smiley's like that, deal with it:) tehe; OKay, so it is November 6th, 2006. I just got this little website today. I was planning on asking a question but then i read somone else's questiona nd i decided to answer their question first. Im about to as a question of my own. I am 14, but I am pretty matur for my age. I ahve a myspace. My link is www.myspace.com/c0ll33nismyname You should check it out. I also have a boyfrined named Dylan. I love him..:) I ahd to see a shrink last year and plan to start seeing another one within about the next week but im not sure how to tell my mom I want to do to a different person. You can ask me anything frmo somthing really personal to the most random question ever or even just a question about me. I'm up for whatever, and I hope to make some friends.
Gender: Female
Location: Louisiana
Age: 14
AIM: colleenALISE
Member Since: November 6, 2006
Answers: 15
Last Update: November 8, 2006
Visitors: 2692
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Okay.
I have a girlfriend, we have been together for a little over 13 months.
Just recently, she has been telling me that she's really scared that she is going to lose me and she is scared that she is going to get hurt again.
I don't know what to do.
I am scared that her not wanting to lose me, will cause her to breakup with me.
It doesnt really make since but thats how it is.
I keep telling her that she will not lose me.
I keep telling her how much in love with her I am, and I know she feels the same way.
I have asked her to please trust me with her heart, and I will never leave.
I just don't know what to say to make her stop being so scared. I don't know what to say to make her stop worrying.
PLEASE HELP ME TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY!
pleasepleaseplease.
Thankyou so much. (link)
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OKay, I have a boyfrined that Im in love with.
The boyfrined I had right befor this one broke my heart. It took my nine months to get over him. Im glad I did but i know where your girlfrined is coming from and if you have any feelings that she might break up with you you should ask her about it. Being that you guys have been togetehr for longer than a year i assume you guys are reallly close and you can talk to her about anything. Ask her somehting like, " Babby, I know you're scared that I'll hurt you but I promise you, i give you my word, I won't ever do anything to hurt you and I really don't want you to end what we've got so that you don't get hurt because i promise i've got no reason to hurt you and i don't intend to, everr." you know to like make her more secure and if sh doesn't respond to that be straigth forward and tell her that you don't want her to end your realtionship because she is scared and like just hugg her a lot and kiss her on her forehead more often, let her know you reallly do care about her. I dont know if you guys are sexuallly active or whatever but if so then you could maybe slow it down a little for a couple months so that she knows that you're not using her, hich i doubt she thinks that but you never knwo. just talk to her more about it and don't ONLY promise her that you'll not hurt her but ALSO try to make her feel goood about herself and say things to her like you don't know how in the world that guy could have hurt her because she is the most precious thing everr, and he must be a total idiot to get rid of somone so amazing. make her feel goood. hope IM helpinggg:)
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