My name is Colleen but all of my friends call me Leena. Call me what whatever you'd like. I'm reallly tiny. 4'11 :) I like to type little smiley's like that, deal with it:) tehe; OKay, so it is November 6th, 2006. I just got this little website today. I was planning on asking a question but then i read somone else's questiona nd i decided to answer their question first. Im about to as a question of my own. I am 14, but I am pretty matur for my age. I ahve a myspace. My link is www.myspace.com/c0ll33nismyname You should check it out. I also have a boyfrined named Dylan. I love him..:) I ahd to see a shrink last year and plan to start seeing another one within about the next week but im not sure how to tell my mom I want to do to a different person. You can ask me anything frmo somthing really personal to the most random question ever or even just a question about me. I'm up for whatever, and I hope to make some friends.
Gender: Female
Location: Louisiana
Age: 14
AIM: colleenALISE
Member Since: November 6, 2006
Answers: 15
Last Update: November 8, 2006
Visitors: 2696
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My name is **SARAH** and im 15 [[16 in 2 months]]. I have a boyfriend **JOHN** who is also 15 and going to be 16 in 2 months. Well JOHN and I have been going out for 5 months this Saturday. We get along so well and we talk about EVERYTHING. When we hang out we don't have to do stuff to have fun; we cuddle, talk about everything, watch movies, sit outside and watch the stars. Well the past few days we got ALOT closer. He is the first boy i went out with for longer the 1 week after my very first love and hardest break up of 2 years. Well; the other day we became alot more physical. I mean before that all we did was BARELY make out; but the other day. It was like we made out for 2 hours and he fingered me. I was the first girl he ever did anything with like that and he was the second guy who did it to me. [[my first love was obv. my first]]. Well; we both have talked and decided we don't want to ruin our relationship with being sexual all the time. He knows about my past and i told him i didn't want to have sex until i was WAYYY older and hopefully married. He tells me all the time he wants to marry me and that he loves me more then anything in the world and i believe him. Well, he also doesnt want to have sex until he is married. We have talked about this so many times; but i am afraid that one day i'm going to get to crazy and give in. I REALLY DONT want to. I already made this mistake before. Do any of you have advice for me? PLease don't tell me to talk to him about, we have. It doesnt have to be 1,000,000 dollar advice ANYTHING would help. Please help me and please don't criticize me.
**SARAH** (link)
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mmk, so i've been in a situation somthing like yourss.. like the whole its your boyfrineds first time thing and all of that jazz, but being that you're more experienced or you've been "experienced" for longer then you'll prolly be the one leading into most of the physical things you guys do. not that you'll alsways be the one doing stuff, but i doubt that he'll ask you to have sex unles he is kidding. And fi he does or if you guys are like ina moment or somthing don't be afraid to ruin it or stop it or whatever IM sud\re that if he told you he wants to wait then he will end up appreciating it mroe in the long run. i know you said don't tell you to talk to him so i won't and i realize that sometimes talkignt o peopel doesn't help butdon't like STOP talking to him about it. Its okayy to talk about stuff like that pretty often and not just liek completely kill the idea ya know? i hope what i've said has helped...
noe more thing, if anyone critisizes you its because they don't know what you feel, screw themm:)
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