My friends and family have all said I should try my hand at being an advice columnist. Said that I am regular Dear Abby and Dr. Ruth rolled into one. So here it goes I'm on here to help with whatever however I can.
E-mail: jewell2578@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Age: 28
AIM: moetsminer
Yahoo: midnightmoet
Member Since: November 1, 2006
Answers: 23
Last Update: December 7, 2006
Visitors: 2368
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My name is **SARAH** and im 15 [[16 in 2 months]]. I have a boyfriend **JOHN** who is also 15 and going to be 16 in 2 months. Well JOHN and I have been going out for 5 months this Saturday. We get along so well and we talk about EVERYTHING. When we hang out we don't have to do stuff to have fun; we cuddle, talk about everything, watch movies, sit outside and watch the stars. Well the past few days we got ALOT closer. He is the first boy i went out with for longer the 1 week after my very first love and hardest break up of 2 years. Well; the other day we became alot more physical. I mean before that all we did was BARELY make out; but the other day. It was like we made out for 2 hours and he fingered me. I was the first girl he ever did anything with like that and he was the second guy who did it to me. [[my first love was obv. my first]]. Well; we both have talked and decided we don't want to ruin our relationship with being sexual all the time. He knows about my past and i told him i didn't want to have sex until i was WAYYY older and hopefully married. He tells me all the time he wants to marry me and that he loves me more then anything in the world and i believe him. Well, he also doesnt want to have sex until he is married. We have talked about this so many times; but i am afraid that one day i'm going to get to crazy and give in. I REALLY DONT want to. I already made this mistake before. Do any of you have advice for me? PLease don't tell me to talk to him about, we have. It doesnt have to be 1,000,000 dollar advice ANYTHING would help. Please help me and please don't criticize me.
**SARAH** (link)
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Waiting until you are married is a great decision ... (APPLAUSE) I ended up losing mine at 14 and got pregnant. Not to say you two can't out outer course. Other things besides sex itself. I mean if you choose to. But stick to your decision and wait to have sex. When you wait until you are truely ready it is so much better and has more meaning.
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