Hey everyone! My name is megan; I'm 15 and going to be 16 in a few months. I've been through alot of stuff that some people haven't. I'm really good at giving advice and i love to try and help others. If you have a question or need someone to talk to message me and I will try my best to help you. I'm here for everyone and anyone. I'll do everything i can to help you. I'm looking forward to your questions. Thank you; megan!
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Okay, my boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a WEEK, and he's already kind of hinting that he wants to have sex with me. I know I shouldn't, and I won't give in, being as that I am Catholic and have religious morals. But, I was with him yesterday and he had an erection. It kind of freaked me out, because we weren't even kissing or anything, and I really don't think I'm ready to have the same type of relationship he wants. And also, yesterday, he showed me condoms he had bought, and that pretty much just took me over the edge. He told me if I really wanted him to just stop everything, he would, and I do believe him, but when I'm trying to tell him no, my shy-side won't let me say anything. Is there any way I can simply tell him no and I want to wait for things like this until I'm older? (link)
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okay hun; i know this is really hard for you and that you shouldn't even have to deal with this at the age you are but; it's going to come up many times in your life. Just like you i didn't want to have sex before i was MUCH MUCH older or until i was married but i DIDN'T talk about it and just let the boy control my thoughts on the idea and did it anyways. My advice for you doll is; 1. talk to him about it. i kow it will be akward but it's good for you to be open with him especially if he is showing signs that he REALLY wants to; and it seems to me he does.
2. Don't loose your morals because your afraid to loose him; i did. Now that i have and think about it i wish i didn't because it's something your never going to forget.
3. If he decides that he doesn't want to be with you because of this; forget him. There is going to be so many more guys in the world and you WILL find one who will love you for you.
i know it's hard because i remember i was 13 and i wanted someone i could call my own but; you have your whole life. You shouldn't be worrying about this. Cheer up hun and follow your heart.
-megg.
ps.i hope this helps. if you need anything message me :]
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