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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend? (link)
Well I've been out of High School for almost 15 years now, and we had this. Albeit, perhaps not as often, but we had it. We too had the 'sex' pressure, and if you didn't want to be some sort of pariah, then you had to get laid. But this was more a high-school thing, not the middle school and junior high crowd. Yes, there were exceptions, but that was pretty rare.

Occasionally I see a group of girls this age at a distance, and I find myself thinking something to the effect of "Oh, wonder how cute these chicks are?". Then, when I get close enough to actually SEE how young they really are, I end up feeling ill. Some of these girls strut around in clothes only a whore would wear (in public), and I cant imagine what parents would allow them out of the house dressed like that - perhaps they are fairly adept at sneaking out, or their parents are trash. I'm no prude mind you, and my friends who are about my age (even the risque, crazy ones) wouldn't wear clothing like that. If they are wanting attention then they get it, but even if they were old enough for me to have any interest in, dressed the way many do I wouldn't touch them for fear of what diseases they may be passing around. I wish I could get across to these young girls just how bad they look, but I would doubt they care; they want to flaunt their budding sexuality, its a new thing, and a lot of them end up looking like they'll be pregnant before they even hit high school.

I've heard a lot of crazy stories about all the growth hormones in livestock causing early puberty in children, and though I dont buy it, there has to be SOME reason that puberty is starting earlier - or, that it SEEMS to be. Though the youngest mother on record is believed to be a 5-year old who had begun menstruation at 3 years of age (http://www.snopes.com/pregnant/medina.asp), that was exceptional and I imagine not really representative of that era. And even if you accept the argument that young girls are hitting puberty earlier and earlier, that doesnt mean they need to start bumping uglies before they can even drive a car. For my classmates, getting your license was kind of the 'sex enabler', before that it was kissing/holding hands etc. And that was a high-school rite of passage, you werent doing this at 10-14 or so.

I partially blame our media, television and movie industry for giving these young girls an image to strive for, which really is far too mature for them.


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I know what you mean. My best friend (a guy) often says "She's hot" when a girl has her back turned, and then she turns around and she's like 11. I tease him about it, but seriously, these girls dress like they're in they're streetwalkers. It's really pretty sad. Anyway, thanks for your reply!




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