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Q: 13/F

Okay, I just starting going out with my amazing boyfriend, (who just happens to be my best friend's ex, but she knows and she's not mad)and we went to the movies last night, and had an incredible night. We kissed, we told each other we loved each other, and pretty much everything else. He tried to make out with me the whole movie, but after I got my point across that I wasn't going to make-out with him the whole movie, he finally stopped, and we just held hands, cuddled, and flirted. I thought he was going to stop liking me because I didn't want to continue as far as he wanted me to, but he called me after our date, and we only talked for a few minutes. Now, here's the thing: I told my best friend (his ex) about our date, and all she could tell me was that everything he said and did was only a game to try to get in my pants. I believe her, but I really like him. (I would never give in to having sex with him, though) So, is there any advice anyone could give me on how to deal with this whole situation?
Thanks so much!

P.S. And he's definitely not as perverted as he seems, he's actually very nice.
Hey okay. I totally understand where your coming from.. im 14 i just turned 14 and i know that some boys can do that. I'm sure that many of your b/f's wanted 2 get into your pants. Just say No. I actaually beleive in NO sex until marrage and i am staying true to that and if you just do not want to have sex with him.. tell him no. If he keeps trying.. i suggest breaking up with him, cause just a little can lead to a lot, guyes are a lot stronger in the muscle department {well some of them } and he can do many things to you that can hurt you even if he {seems really nice} I am not telling you break up with him... just sit down with him.. tell him how you feel about making out and sex.. and maybe he really will understand and take things your speed. You need to let him know fermly and strongly that you are not ready for sex and you need time 2 make out all the time with him. Just let him no.. some guyes can be pretty understanding. Good luck and hope i helped!

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