Member Since: September 22, 2006
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Last Update: February 1, 2007
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THERE'S NO GETTING OVER THIS GUY - i mean seriously, we broke up 2 years ago, 2 YEARS, and ever since..ive done everything possible, everything you're supposed to do, to get over a person,... burnt his stuff, cried, talked to friends about it, gotten closure, dated other guys, you name it - ive done it! YET, im not over him. I think about him all the time, i still love him and still need him, and still dream about marrying him ten years from now, i havn't let go.. even though ive tried, so hard, for two years, im beginning to think i'll never get over him, i dont know what to do, he's moved on, his screenname is always about a new girl, h flirts like crazy, has fun, and at the same time has deep meaningful relationships, HE'S MOVED ON so howcome i can't? all along i knew i loved him more than he loved me and it meant more to me than it meant to him, so i knew it would take some more time for me.. but he got over me in a matter of days, IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS FOR ME. help me please. (link)
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First, some people...you never get over. Some people will tell you that they have no problem getting over anyone, but that isn't true for everyone at all. I myself still kick myself for letting 2 or 3 women get away in the past, or when I was a typical idiotic man and precipitated a break-up. And let me tell you that I STILL think of those 2-3 women, and I probably always will. They were special, they were really wonderful women - and though my feelings have diminished over time there are still some feelings left. If any of them were to show up on my doorstep I would have some serious feeling to wrestle with.
You need to realise that getting back together with him isn't going to happen, and marrying him is simply out of the question. Its ok to have feelings for someone still, and to have fond memories of someone - you just need to calm down a bit, realise this isn't all that abnormal, shrug, and move on. Eventually you will get over him, at least to the point were it isn't an issue...but I imagine you will always have some level of feelings for him.
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hm, ok thanks.. im just a bit worried my feelings for him will always be THIS STRONG, cause in that case i wont ever be able to let another guy in,, but ya..ill try to just let it go and move on with it, thanks!
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