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I've been dating this guy for about five months now. I think we're perfect together & everytime I'm with him, he makes me the happiest girlfriend alive. He's like a part of my life & I really don't know what would happen if he weren't to be in my life anymore.

With that, we have this BIG disagreement.

He smokes weed, and I think it's REALLY gross. Ever since he met me, he has cut down, because he hangs out with me a lot, and he won't do it around me. He smoked weed for like three years before he met me, so it's not like he just recently started. I know weed isn't addicting, the only reason he likes it is because it's just nice to have every once in awhile.

I don't like weed because I just don't like how weird he acts when he's on it, it just scares me. He also says mean things about me, [I found his tape recorder & he ended up recording an entire conversation with his roommate talking about how unhappy he is with me!]

He said he's not willing to change & weed has been around a lot longer then me.

I'm lost, what should I do??

Thank you! (link)
when you love someone, you have to love EVERYTHING about them- including his love of weed. Dont try and change somebody, it will always backfire and more then not, on the person trying to change the other person.


Rating: 3
Weed isn't HIM though.
You wouldn't understand, obviously.




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