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I was always against abortion. I am 16 years old and pregnant. I have a boyfriend for 5 monghs now and we never had sex. The problem is that on a night out with a friend of mine "girl" I got raped. Somebody must have sleeped me that ruffy cause I do not remember anything and woke up the next day feeling like my head is going to explode. That happen over 45 days ago.
My parents now, we told them its my boyfriends and it is my fault cuase my parents have been through a lot and I really dont want them to know. I consider myself mature enough to battle with my own problems and mistakes. I consider it to be my fault since I was not carefull enough. Plus, them knowing would change a lot.
I definately do not want to keep that baby, I definately am not ready to become a mother especially on such an occasion and already too many people know. My parents want me to keep it even though we are not wealthy at all.
I know that after 3 months you can now longer have an abortion so I am running out of time. How do I convince my parents to let me do it? And...if they dont allow me to, I ll do it myself. What could change then? How will I be able to make them, accept my choice. My boyfriend has been really understanding with the hole situation and really helpfull. He is the one willing to give the money for such an...act.
I am ready to do anything it takes not to have that baby, If I have to punch myself in the stomach, I ll do it.
People from my church also know. They will never take me back after such a thing. My boyfriend sais he could move far away with me were we will work and go to school at the same time. (link)
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You may not like this answer, and I may not be paying attention to the major question, but if your boyfriend's willing to spend money to move away and all, you should be okay to take care of the baby.. This is a very difficult situation... and it all depends on your morals, but do not, I repeat do NOT try punching yourself or anything like that. Also, if a bunch of people already know, you shouldn't worry about your reputation i bring pregnant...
All I'm saying, is to think this over..
Kat
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Rating: 5
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No way I was going to punch myself. Thanks for worrying about it but I just said it so to make people understand how far I am willing to go. Of course I am thinking it over, every second of the day. There is no way I am going to keep the baby. My boyfriend is only 16, he has no money to raise a child especially one that is being created under such circumstances. I am not going to let this screw up my life. I lost my virginity to a guy I have never seen...anyways I could be talking for hours but you get the picture. Thank you for the try though. [Rating changed by MSH: 1 to 5]
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