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I had quite a sexually active life when I was younger. I broke my virginity at 13 and went on humping anyone I could get my hands on.(Of course, I only have sexual relations with women of my liking. This is not shallow hal here.)
Anyways, the problem came about a few months ago when I finally settled down and got myself into a serious relationship. At first, the sex was its usual. Then, after a few months, I didn't want to do it anymore. I can't seem to get it up for her. I try to avoid sex and it's seems kinda depressing. But here's the thing. I can get it up for any other chick, not for her. -___-
In short, I dont want to break up with her, I just don't want to have sex with her. (link)
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There is something under the surface here. Something about the way you feel about yourself and/or the relationship. It's up to you to figure out what that something is.
A lot of times it's something that is seemingly unrelated, but is indeed the cause. Anxiety about something completely unrelated, for example.
I strongly suggest you seek couples therapy or sex therapy.
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