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Hey all I love to give advice so ask away! I'm in high school and don't take crap from anyone; I don't care if people say things about the way I am. I don't do the whole trend thing...I'll wear something or do something because I like it and that's it. I love music and I play several instruments. My goal this year is to go to The Who concert or a Jet Concert!!! YEAH!!

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i didn't know which catagory this would fit in.. but i have this major problem about worrying about my cat. here is the story:

i had another cat some years back and she was injured by a speeding car one night while i was out. She was turned in the emergency room in critical condition with life-threatening conditions such as blindness, and jaw deformation.

my family and i decided to put her to sleep, and later on (two years later) i got a new cat. i made her an indoor cat so nothing would really happen to her. however, i always get bad visions of my cat dying in her sleep, like Sudden kitten death syndrome (Like SIDS) and there have been times I woke up seeing my cat not move at all, and I got terrified, and tried waking her up and she did. I always freak out when she is laying next to me or somewhere else. I always get worried she'll die and I get so scared so much that I feel like it's sending me into major paranoia.

I love my cat so much and it would break my heart if something ever happened to her, which is probably why I get like that. But I am still a little confused why I keep feeling that way, and I would like to know. I would also like advice on how to treat this problem so I would feel a bit more ease.

thanks in advance

well it's normal to feel this way because my cats are both outdoor and indoor and one of my cats got run over. From then on at night when I call my cats to come inside I get really scared if one doesn't show up and I start thinking of all the horrible things that could've happened to them. Try not to worry so much and if something does happen you just got to believe that they're in a better place. It will take a while to get over but it just takes time...I'm still paranoid about something happening to my cats..so don't feel alone.

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