Talk to him about it. Tell him what is bothering you. Communication is a must. If he is hurting you, he may not even know that he is. You need to let him know. Fill him in. He is probably unaware of his actions. This reminds me much of my friends situation. I told her, she needs to be open with him and let him know how she feels. If he's like "oh really, well i didn't know anything was wrong." Then chances are he will straighten up. However if he starts to give out excuses and keeps up with the act, then it would probably be a good idea to get rid of him. I know that you love him, but maybe you are looking for a different type of relationship that he is looking for. Maybe you are just a long term type person, and he just wants to keep it simple. I really can't go on much from what information you have provided, but please email me or message me on myspace (in my profile). If i knew more about your situation, maybe i could help you more. ^.^ I'm here if you need me.
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