HEY EVERYONE, I'M KAT!
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Alright. This gets a little complicated, but here it goes.
I have a myspace account and one day, randomly, i get a message saying that I look familiar, etc... to this guy. Come to find out that my ex boyfriends cousins-fiance is this guys best friend. (you still with me?) I've been talking with him for the past 6 months or so. Messaging back and forth. He's planning on coming by me in a few months, then a friend and i are planning on going by him next year and then a month later he'll be back here again. i feel differently when i talk to him. i mean, it's a great different. he's totally different, meaning, that he's definitely Not like any of my ex's (which is definitely a good thing), he cares for me (he said it himself), and I was told by his best friend that whenever i'm brought up in conversations, he gets all flaberghasted and even starts stuttering when they talk about me. i think i'm actually starting to fall for this guy. now, my question is, am i stupid to think something could happen? i was never one to do the whole 'long distance relationship' but i actually want to. should i try or am i just
setting myself up for the biggest fall?
any advice wold be great! i rate! (link)
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well, are you sure he's the real thing?? I'm not sure if you two have actually met, because I didnt' quite understand the whole thing, but make sure you're very cautious. If you two ever try to meet -this probably sounds lame, but-have your parents go with you. Maybe go for dinner with them or something.. then they can see he's the real deal. And it wouldn't matter if they see him for only a few minutes or something, because he could instantly surn into something else..
But if you're sure he's real.. you could have real feelings for him, and it could be a good thing.
I'm not sure how you'd be able to handle the long distance thing but you might be able to make it work if you're really dedicated.
Good luck though, and I hope this helps!
-Kat
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it does help. thank you. im old enough to make decisions without my parents right beside me. im 21. but again, i thank you for your advice!
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