hi every1! my name is katie, im 17 years old,i feel that any1 who can diss someone and say that there giving advice, are so totally retarded and messed up! but there are some WEIRD peeple out there.even though im only 17, i have been through alot, i have been raped, molested, beaten, my parents are divorced and i have ran away from home so theres not much that i havent been through. so u can imagine how much advice i have 4 all of u troubled peeple.im listening, u just talk! thanx!
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me and my boyfriend waited 9 months before we had sex .. now WHENEVER we hang out we do it like 5 times .. i dont want it to get old .. and i think we do it too much .. he feels differently but im not sure how to talk to him .. please help =[ (link)
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well if you dont want to have sex with him every time you c him then talk to him and explain that you dont want to have sex every waking moment with him. let him know that its bothering you, that-well if you do want to have sex with him still- you still want to have sex with him, but you would rather do other things to, like go out somewhere and have fun. and if he dosent listen to you or dosent agree with you, remember that its your FEELINGS that hes not listening to, not just what you think, ya know? and you dont deserve sum1 whos only seeing you as an "hey im with her so im gonna get laid" attitude. you deserve sum1 with an attitude that thinks about you personally and wants you 2 be happy and also-if your comfortable- be intimate with sexually. And if they reallt do care about you then they wont pressure you or make you feel uncomfortable to do things that you obviously dont want to do.
i hope i helped!
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