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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

...I'm wondering if dating my best guy-friend is the best thing because I've heard that you'll never be friends after but as I've said before...I've dated one of my other friends and we broke up and we're still good friends...The thing is...with this guy...I never really liked him before but now I feel as though I can't spend a day without talking to him...Is it a good idea to date him....

i'm going through the same thing as you are. i can't stop thinking about him, and always wondering about him. i guess i do like him. but anyways. there's a lot of pros and cons to this thing.
pros: it's easier to talk to him. you know him so it's easier to have a good relationship with him. it just feels better to be with him.
cons: if/when you break up, it's gonna be awkward. your friendship is in risk. you might lose somebody whose close to you.
i guess i would say, ask him if he would wanna try going out. if you want it to be a successful relationship, both of you have to commit to it. also, make sure that if/when you break up, you'll always stay friends. you would not want to end up not talking to each other after all you've been through. i learned that the hard way. and, never change. ya'll have been friends all this time, and just cuz ya'll are dating doesn't mean you should change. that's really important.
if you need anything else, feel free to IM me. my AIM s/n is:: WANNA BE iiN LUV

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(Rating: 5) hey thanks...i like how you put thr pros. and cons...
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