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I really like the guy that i am talking about here.
My friend kept telling me that she will talk to this guy and see if he would dance with me tonight at homecoming.I told her not to talk to him because its not worth it and she was damn sure that he would say yes. So yea she asked him and he said he would dance with a few times. So after school my friend came over and she got on my computer and he had sent her a message through myspace and it was from him so she told me not to look at the computer while she read it. But obviosuly i knew since it was from and she let me read his messages earlier that it was about me so i looked anyways without her knowing and he said something like this: "meet me in the hallway, and i don't really think i want to dance with her"
So she sent him something back and added "will you please just dance with her"
I felt really depressed and my heart like broke at that point. So i went to the dance and she walked away from me and went with her date. I was dancing with a few friends on one side and it happened to be right in front of him so i figured that i would just dance like a mad man to make him kinda jealous or whatever idk.
The last 40 min of the dance he started hanging all over this other girl and a slow song had came on and i sat down and honestly he was all i could look at. Ad he was holding on to that other girl so freakn tight.
i knoe i may sound like a complete idiot but i honestly don't know what to do. I cant stop thinking about him. And the fact the he doesnt like me.
And also how wrong was it to look at her message after she told me not too? And plus she doesnt realize that i did but she was not going to to tell me that he didnt want to dance with me.
please help...
thank you.
Second question first. I'm not going to tell you if it was 'right' for you to look at the message behind her back...but it really didn't do you a lot of good. She, as a friend was trying to protect you, so you wouldn't get hurt like you did. Then again, don't dwell on whether or not you made the right decision, because the decision's made, and you're never going to forget what you read.
Now, the guy. I don't mean to be insensitive, but it's a bit obvious that the guy dosen't like you. If he did, he wouldn't be hanging all over some other chick, instead of dancing with you. It hurts, I know. A good friend of mine is currently in the same situation. But the fact remains that you can't force a guy to like you. The best thing to do is think about all of the reasons you don't want to be with him. Try to keep your mind away from his undeniable attractiveness. It will pass, I promise, all crushes do. Hope I helped.
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yea thanks.
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