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Q: There's this girl I'm friends with and I don't really want to be friends with her anymore. She's like way too clingy. She always makes me wait for her or wait with her while she's getting her lunch when she's in line. She also won't stop calling me and following me and she always wants me to be her partner for every single project. She also hurts me for no reason at all!!! And everytime I leave without her for lunch she looks for me and says," You ditched me. Why did you do that? Your my friend." I can't tell her I don't want to be friends anymore because she know who I like and she told me if I ever make her upset she'll tell everyone who I like. What should I do!!! HELP!!!
That's a sticky situation. If I were you I would slowly start making excuses about why you couldn't wait for her or be her partenter for a project.
For example: when it's time for lunch, stick around to talk to the teacher. Hopefully she will go ahead the cafeteria without you. Try to find ways to make it look like you aren't 'ditching' her, but you still can't hang around with her ALL THE TIME.
After a while of your not constantly being with her, she will probably find someone else to cling to, and leave you alone!

Hope That Helps!

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