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Q: okay, so my girlfriend and i have known each other for only over a year, and we dated for 5 months, then broke up (terrible for both of us) and she cut herself, now we are back together for 3 months and she still does it every so often... is there anything i can do to help her, becuase i know that she wants to stop, and every time she does it, she feels so terrible about it, it nearly makes her sick, and all of this is absolutly killing me, what can i do to help her?? please i only want good answers...
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I've dealt with this - only it was my [ex]boyfriend.
I don't even know why he became so depressed.. we were together and, I thought, happy with each other. He didn't want to break up with me, but he was a cutter.
I held my feelings in - BAD MOVE. I ended up doing it too, because he kept saying how much better it made him feel and..he was wrong.
In the end, it was one of the reasons I had to break up with him. At everything, he cut or wanted to.
I told him, numerous times, that it was a huge problem in the relationship...but it didn't sink in until I broke up with him.
Try not to break up with your girlfriend, if at all possible. Tell her, though, how it makes you feel. Tell her that it's killing you and makes you sick. Let her know that you want to talk to her and help her. Always always always be open to talking to her - at all times. Tell her to call you whenever she feels like cutting. It's good for us females to know that our male counterparts are always looking out for us.
Also..if she's religious.. try getting her to talk to a pastor/youth pastor/clergy man/Rabbi about the way she's feeling.
[thewretchedmelody]
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thank you so much, i did actually tell her that today, but thank you so much, you were a huge help!
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bio
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I'm Alicia.I'm against :
abortion
anti-Semitism
premarital sex
opression
I have very strong faith but I'm not going to push it upon you.
I'm in love with music :
mostly hardcore;
emo;
and indie. I'm my own person, no matter what you think about me. I dye my hair strange colors alot. I want to be a doctor or a scientist of some kind when I "grow up" I'm one of the coolest people you'll ever meet. I'd love to talk to you; just not on Advicenators. I don't care what you think about me. So don't waste your breath.
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Website: Gender: Female Occupation: childcare worker Age: 15 Member Since: July 15, 2006 Answers: 42 Last Update: October 1, 2006 Visitors: 4846
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