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Q: This is a question for all you girls who know "the rules" to how to get THE guy.
To all you who know how to flirt, play hard to get, and keep the dude exactly where you want him.

Here it goes..

This guy and I live in different countries.
We've met twice (through friends and relatives)
We've been e-mailing for a while. Flirting somewhat.
I've been told this is where you start paying hard to get! after getting his attention!

So.. I havn't replaied to his last e-mail (sent two weeks ago)

so where do i go from here?

I can't just keep playing hard to get, cause then we'll lose touch.

So when do i make my move? and what is my move?
juts out of the blue sending him an email non-related to the last one?

or what?

thhxx!
ps. 15/fm

i actually think the way that you're playing hard to get is sort of stupid, especially because you don't get to see this guy to often, almost never. if you don't respond to his e-mail, and he doesn't see you, what makes you think he'll suddenly go crazy thinking about a girl he's seen twice, and lives thousands of miles away? e-mail him back. because if he liked you in that way, he'd want to know that you somewhat cared for him. otherwise, it's like, why bother. plpaying hard to get is misconseptual, and can really only mix up what people think of others.

Rating: 5

yeahh i know, but he already knows i like him, and ive heard "guy dont know what they've got until the lose it!" so i was thinking of kinda dissappearing for a while to make him realize what he's got..or atleast miss me somewhat..and then reappearing into his life, if that makes sense.. does it sound stupid??

oh well thanks anyways!! :D ♥

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