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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

i'm a girl thats 13 and I like a guy alex that is 13. we are friends and sometimes i think he likes me, but he flirts with everyone. We flirt more when our other friends aren't around, but he's not mean to me when we are with our other frineds. I don't want to ruin our friendhip by going out with him. and sometimes I feel like i just want him to like me, and once he does and asks me out ..i'll say no. how do i figure out if i want this for real or am just seeing if he likes me? should i keep flirting with him and see what happens? or should i just keep it as friends and then see what other guys come along?
thanks for your help

i'm going through the same thing you are. i like my best guy friend. i think you shouldn't lead him on then just say no when he asks you out. that'll make it more awkward. really, i would stay friends until you know that your friendship is so strong that you can have a relationship and know that when the relationship ends, you'll still be friends at the end.

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much, that is excatly what i'm doing!
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