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these two friends of mine, who both used to be much closer to me than to eachother got really close this summer while i was gone. now when we hang out, its them 2...and then me on the outside. everyone has noticed it because they are both now soo very into each other and dont talk to anyone else. ive kind of given up on jen, because i expected this from her in the first place. shes always put me aside, becoming great friends with someone new, then tossing them aside for someone else, etc. she always needs attention and is always flirting with guys, even if she knows her friends like him or if hes taken. kelsey on the other hand, has always been so kind and funny. weve had great times but for months now we dont hanbg out outside of school. this week however, weve begun to be like old times. maybes its because ive stoped caring about what jen does, or maybe shes come to her senses that jen is not a good friend. whatever it is, we planned for a night this weekend where wed go to the football game then shed come over. her parents are a little strict about her going out lots because shes ALWAYS at jens. i was so excited for this weekend cuz it would be like old times again..when she decided togo the jens on friday night. i thought, maybe her parents will let her come anways. but then i also tho, shell probably invite jen to come too..and then it wont be much fun cuz they wont talk to me. so today when i talked to her she said "heres the plan, we could go to the football game,or to the hockey game with jen and her sister" i told he ri couldnt go to the hockey game and told her sinmce the boy she likes is playing, she should go with jen without me. wont let you go to the ffootball game. after aboit an hour of figuring things out, things werent working. we decided that it wasnt gonna work so i told her to go to the stupid hockey game. I'm so disapointed in her because i feel like once again, she has chosen jen over me. i am 15 yr old girl from canada and speak french and english..this has happend to me so many times with these girls i dont know what to do. (link)
ok i know how you feel...the same thing happened to me...and jen is exactly how one of my friends is...all i ahve to say is just talk to her call her...right her a note or something...say it seems like you always choose jen over me and it hurts..alot...all i want is a a little time to spend with you...like the good ol days....
and then plan a weekend out and say please don't make plans with jen...i just want this one day to be just you and me.

hope i helped
goodluck =)


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thanks so much for the help, its good to get an opinion from someone who doesnt actually know these too, thank you!




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